Having Sex
Losing your virginity can seem scary, and the range of myths surrounding it doesn't help. In most cases, though, penetrative sex should not be intensely painful, even on your first time. Follow along after the jump to learn how to mentally and physically prepare yourself.
your virginity a little easier. Consider picking up:
ReplyDeleteCondoms, which both help prevent pregnancy and help stop the spread of sexually-transmitted infections (STIs). Even if you're on birth control pills and you trust your partner, using a condom can erase any doubts that might make you anxious in the moment. Don't worry about buying anything that's ribbed or extra tricked-out for your first time — just look for the most basic version you can find.
Lubricant, the next-best thing you can buy after condoms because it will ease a lot of the pain and prevent vaginal tearing. If you're using latex condoms (which most are), do not use an oil-based lubricant, because they can tear the condom. Instead, opt for a silicone- or water-based lube.